The End of a Chapter

Well, in classic Sheraya fashion, I did not get this post finished before I left for the next mission trip… so here I sit in South Africa, writing about Belize! In a way, though, I’m really glad to have had this time and space to process a bit more – plus, going through training again and entering our new community has made me realize how much I’ve learned and grown from my time in Belize.

I’ll try to remember what all we did that last week and a half in-country – it was a lot, so please bear with me!

To sum it up, it was a week of lasts and goodbyes. They started on Monday, when after school we hurried home to go sell tamales with Mama E and our dear friend M. M was leaving on vacation and wouldn’t be back before we left, so it was our last night with her. It was a night filled with hugs and laughter, Monsters and at the very end, tears. We were so blessed to have such good times with M, who from the very beginning loved us so much – I lost track of the sheer number of pet names she called us!

Monday night was also a chance to say goodbye to the many taxi drivers I had become good friends with. The hours we spent talking are some of my favorite parts of the whole trip.

Tuesday was our last day at the primary school – the kids in my class were so sweet and all chipped in to get me a small gift and wrote a card. That class was also a major highlight of the trip for me – it was such a redemptive experience after having to miss a lot of class in the village. I adore them!

That night we went downtown to sell tamales for the last time – just for a few hours this time, because Mama had house church. H decided to stay downtown and meet up with the others on the team for an outreach event, while J and I went with Mama. I ended up kind of regretting it, because during the event H ended up experiencing healing that we had been praying for throughout the trip! When we woke up the next morning and heard the news, there was such celebration!

Wednesday was our last day at the preschool – we helped create a poster for some of their financial supporters. It was awesome to see the artwork we had created the weeks prior up on the wall already!

After we said goodbye to the preschool teachers, we headed to Sarita’s for a little going away party with the primary school teachers! It was so good to see them one last time – and trying the last couple of ice cream flavors on my list was a nice perk too!

Wednesday also happened to be the first day the rainy season finally kicked in! While we were initially really excited about the drop in temperature, we quickly realized that the rainy season is truly rainy – think maybe 4 15-minute breaks in 24 hours – and that nothing ever really dries at that rate. I think it rained every day afterwards for the rest of the trip!

The rain also meant that we weren’t really able to do our typical work on Thursday and Friday. Instead, Thursday morning we helped Mama make tamales and tried to record the process as much as possible.

Afterwards our new Pastor C and his wife picked us up and took us out for coffee, which was such a treat! We even got cheesecake, which was just scrumptious.

After we were finished, they took us to their campus and gave us a tour. It was a beautiful facility, and some of the group provided entertainment for the rest by trying to catch chickens!

Pastor C picked us up again a few hours later to attend a prayer meeting, which was also really good.

Friday morning we stayed home and rested, and Mama treated us to the most amazing fried tacos for lunch! They were so good that she made them again for dinner. This woman is just incredible – she rearranged her week so that we could have more time with her for our last weekend.

The team also made one last boba run! We had a lot of good convos and made some fond memories at that little place.

After dinner we went to church with Mama one last time. Saturday morning we headed to the market and checked off multiple items on our to-do list: getting pupusas with Mama, buying the last of our souvenirs, printing photos to give to our families, secretly buying a gift for Mama, and purchasing a printer for the school in the village! It was a big list, but we knocked it out!

We went home and rested for a little bit, then surprised Mama and took her out to eat later that afternoon at the fancy pizza place in town! She was so excited, and the pizza was so good!

Afterwards, we headed over to the other host home for a birthday party! It was so much fun, and it was really good to see the other family and say goodbye.

Sunday was our last full day in Belize. We started off the morning by trying out a sweet version of fryjacks with strawberry filling! They were so good, and even better, I finally got to use my can opener that I had accidentally brought along!

We then went to church, where the pastor asked some of us to help lead worship when the scheduled people didn’t show. It was a real privilege to sing with my teammates!

After church, Mama made us our favorite, fried chicken… The thought of it still makes me drool! I miss her cooking almost as much as I miss her!

That night we walked over to Mama’s church and anxiously waited while makeshift seats (aka cinder blocks and boards) were installed in the back of a van. Our destination: the village! The village church was having a children’s compaña, and Mama’s church attended. I had really been wanting to go back and see our first host family before we left Belize, and for a while it didn’t look like things would work out, but by the grace of God they did! It was the best of both worlds: we didn’t lose any time with Mama and we got to see our first host families again! Unfortunately the other house wasn’t able to join us, but we passed along hugs on their behalf.

We got back to town tired but happy. I was up early the next morning to make a banana cake and finish packing, and Mama made some fryjacks too. Finally our bus arrived, and it was time to say some tearful goodbyes.

We loaded up and began the long trip home! First was a 90 minute ride to Belize City…

…then a several hour wait for our flight to Miami…

…then we rushed through customs and got our favorite US beverages before hopping on a flight to LaGuardia…

…then crashed on the floor overnight before our final flight to Chicago!

No matter how much I enjoy traveling, it’s always so good to see the ole stars and stripes again.

We caught another nap at the airport while we waited for the Costa Rica and South Africa teams to get in, then we all hopped on a bus and headed back to Michigan! It was so good to see the other teams again and hear their stories too.

The next couple days were spent debriefing our experience together. In short, it was hard but good – there was a lot to process! We got a lot of good time in together as a team too – a lot of laughs, a lot of hugs, and a lot of stories too.

One of my favorite parts of debrief was when Lauren surprised the team with the movie Twilight! It had been a bit of a running joke that we should watch it because J and I hadn’t seen it before, but we had never got around to it until debrief. We all nestled in to watch the first movie – which I agreed was hilariously bad. It wasn’t super late, so we decided we could probably watch the second movie. Long story short, J and I ended up finishing the fifth and final one at three-something in the morning! It was so worth it, especially since J and I had never gotten around to doing a “frate” together!

After 10 weeks of waking up to each other and spending every day together, it was suddenly our last morning together. We packed up our stuff for the last time, finished the last debrief session, then I said goodbye to the team as they went to the airport. I had a little extra time with L since I ended up riding back to Indiana with her, but before long we said our goodbyes too and I was back at my home sweet, dearly missed home.

Final Thoughts:

So many people have asked me since I got back how Belize was, which is incredibly hard to answer when you have to condense 10 weeks into a sentence so that you don’t talk the ear off of someone who was just trying to be polite. What I came up with was not particularly profound: “Belize was good – hard but good.” There were a lot of really hard things, like being sick multiple times, figuring out how to live daily life without consistent water or electricity, and wrestling with a side of Christianity I had never encountered before; but there were a lot of really good things too, like getting to bond with my host families even across a language barrier, become close with a team that was significantly younger than me, eat some really delicious food, meet and serve and be ministered to by some amazing people, and most importantly, meet my God in a way I hadn’t before. I learned that I can crack jokes in a different language, that I can befriend taxi drivers at a tamale stand and hang out with them all night, that I can talk to God for hours if I only set aside the time and space. I learned about how real the spiritual realm is and how evil evil actually is, but also how strong God is and how strong I can be if I just lean into Him and give myself to Him.

Though I’m not proud of my procrastination on writing this post, I’m really glad to be writing this from South Africa because I’ve seen just how much I learned from Belize. Yes, I had to go through some really hard times, but now I understand that those hard times showed me how to submit myself to others, to a culture very different from mine, and most importantly to the Lord. I’m so grateful for my team, my host families, and my time in Belize. Belize, siempre estás en mi corazon. Gloria a Dios!

Visas, Vigils, and Visits

Well, it’s official – we’re home safe and sound! There’s still 1.5 weeks that I haven’t covered on the blog, though, so I’ll try to wrap that up here soon!

Week 9 started off with a trip to Belmopan to renew our visas. We got there a little earlier this time, so the wait wasn’t as long, then afterwards went to the same food stand for lunch.

While we were there, I decided to try some lychee, which looked really funky but tasted pretty good!

Later that night, while Mama was out selling tortillas, J and H and I walked to our favorite tea place for some boba and good convos. We had a good time and caught this gem while there.

We also went to the store afterwards so H could buy a comal to make tortillas! I absolutely love how this sign is in Creole – it’s very fitting.

Tuesday we worked at the school, then hopped over to a local restaurant to call our host brother E from the village for his birthday! It was so good to talk to him and Mama L.

Afterwards we scrambled home so we could go with Mama to sell tamales. She had only made 50 that night so that she could sell out in time to go to house church that night. We made it just in the nick of time, and I was so glad we went! Even though it was all still in Spanish, it was a lot easier to understand what was going on because it was a much smaller space and people weren’t speaking into mikes. They even served ceviche afterwards, which I had been wanting to try for a while! I seized the opportunity too to get a family photo while we were all dressed up.

Wednesday we helped out at the preschool, mainly recreating some drawings of nursery rhymes.

Mama made us some delicious rice and beans with stewed chicken when we went home for lunch! It was so good.

After school, we went to the local pizza place for some team time and our final Bible study of Ephesians. The food was really good, but I was struggling emotionally and mentally with our study – really it was a continuation of some struggles with the content being taught in the churches there. I continued to struggle with it that evening, and emotions were exacerbated by not being able to get ahold of anybody back home. Thankfully H and J noticed I wasn’t doing great and really comforted me that night.

Thursday we were back at our church build site! We started off by shoveling as much of a huge pile of sand as we could inside the structure, then mixing up some more concrete. J and I got pretty covered in it, as we were lifting buckets of concrete up to pour into a column. We also made a friend of one of the local hardware store staff, and he was kind enough to bring over his shofar and play it for us! I have never heard of a shofar before, but apparently it’s an instrument typically made out of a ram or antelope horn and has been used for celebrations and announcements by the Jewish people for centuries.

We took the afternoon to rest up, as it was going to be a busy night! After dark, we first went to a Breakthrough Group at one of the churches we were attending, where we played a game and heard a lesson.

Afterwards, we taxied into town to a house of the other host family to hold a vigil! I had missed our vigil the previous week because I was sick, so I was pretty excited (and honestly nervous) to experience one for the first time! It was better than I could have expected – just a night full of prayer with breaks for coffee and pumpkin cake. I never knew that I could pray for hours at a time and still have more to say! I got to encounter the Lord in such a sweet way and experienced some emotional healing that had been truly over a decade in the making. We ended up turning in about 3 in the morning, truly worn out from a long day. But what a beautiful experience it was! I don’t think I’ll ever forget it.

We slept in a good bit the next morning, then returned home around noon or so. Our house arrived home to a delicious fried chicken lunch prepared by Mama E – I can assure you, she makes the best fried chicken I’ve ever had!

After lunch we got ready to travel to Spanish Lookout! Spanish Lookout is a large, mostly Mennonite community that’s home to the locally famous Western Dairies, maker of our beloved chocolate Ideals. My first host family from the village had planned on going out last week there, but that was the week I had gotten sick. Getting to visit definitely helped to redeem that really difficult week.

We were picked up by some friends, and we crowded into the back of their truck with our dear friend M. We got really lucky with the rain – it cleared up just before we headed out!

Our first stop was a little Mennonite store, where I was so excited to find a coconut pie! Second we stopped at the Western Dairies store to get ice cream and some pizza. I tried their caboo flavor, which was honestly just okay, but I tried a bite of the Oreo, and I think I can safely say it was the best Oreo ice cream I’ve ever had!

We stopped at a large store to browse before leaving. It was probably the closest thing I had seen to a Walmart the whole time I was in Belize, and it had about the highest concentration of white people I had seen on the trip, which was a strange feeling. While I was glad I got to experience Spanish Lookout, it was definitely an unusual mishmash of cultures – I couldn’t get over seeing silos next to palm trees!

We headed back at our favorite time of day, the late afternoon/early evening when the sun makes everything golden and beautiful. As much as it was fun to experience the town, I think we enjoyed the drive there and back as much (if not more than) the time there. It’s amazing the love these two women have for us, and have had since the day we met them.

The sunset that night was beautiful – just the lightest pink tinting the clouds. This was the view from our house.

Saturday we continued our tradition of going to the market and going shopping for tamale groceries and eating pupusas afterwards! J also got a great deal on a beautiful hammock. We got hit with a bit of rain, but las niñas made sure the groceries were safe!

We did laundry when we got home, which was much needed, evidenced by me wearing my towel as a skirt for a few hours because everything else was in the wash.

We rested up that afternoon to prepare for attending a vigil at Mama’s church that evening. It went until three in the morning, but thankfully we only stayed until one – two late night vigils in three days is a lot!

Sunday morning we attended church at a new location. We had hoped to go there from the beginning of our time in Santa Elena, but the pastor had been out of town for the last several weeks. I’m so glad we got to go for the little time we did, though – while it was still very different from my church experiences in the States, for me it was the most edifying and positive church experience I’d had in Belize by far. The pastor and his wife were so kind and welcoming to us and took the time to learn our names, which I so appreciated!

After church, we went over to the house of a woman from Mama’s church who had invited us over for coffee. J and H went to our other church that evening, but I was pretty pooped, so I stayed home.

Well, that wraps up week 9! I’ll try to get the final posts done soon. Thanks for reading!

“Touristing”, Cake, and Kittens

Week 8 has officially come and gone, and we’re well into Week 9 now – the time is definitely flying. I’ll try to keep this post a little shorter just in an effort to be a little more present here with the time we have left!

Monday and Tuesday we were back at school. I ended up working with the same class both days, which I really like – it helps to create deeper relationships with the kids. Probably my favorite moment was sitting with two little boys during reading time, listening to them sound out the words to an Amelia Bedelia book and cackle at her misunderstandings and antics. It really made me miss reading and what an impact it had on my life as a kid. Books are the best!!

Monday we also got to go to an altar night on the town put on by the church we’ve been going to. They have one at different parks each week, and this week we lucked out, as it one was pretty close to where we live. The goal is to do outreach and “take back” that area for the Lord. There’s a lot of prayer and worship, which is pretty awesome!

Unfortunately, I started feeling sick again after school on Tuesday, so I stayed behind while J and H and Mama went to house church. I did go with the team Wednesday morning to help mix up more concrete for the church we’re working on, but I was definitely not feeling great and was told to sit down partway through. It was really satisfying, though, to see the project we were working on finished!

Wednesday afternoon, Thursday, and a good part of Friday I spent in bed, just trying to recover. The symptoms were extremely similar to the flu I had had back in the village, just (thankfully) without the fever. It was definitely disappointing to be sick yet again, and Thursday I hit kind of a low spot, just struggling with my purpose here and whether I was even supposed to go to South Africa next year for more missions. Thankfully, the Lord helped pull me out of that on Friday morning, and I feel confident that he wants me to go to South Africa in January and even hike the Appalachian Trail afterwards!

I also got to have coffee with Lauren Friday evening, which was really good – our “frate” back in the village was very short and interrupted several times by my little host brother, so it was good to dive a little deeper and not be so distracted!

The big highlight of the week was getting to see some Mayan ruins on Saturday! Our friend from the village who had given us the tour of the cave picked us up early that morning and drove us to the Xunantunich ruins.

We hit a small hitch upon arriving: the ferry that usually transports cars across the river was only ferrying people due to high water levels, and it was a mile walk up some serious hills to the ruins after you had crossed. Normally this would be no big deal for me, but since I still wasn’t feeling 100%, the two mile round trip walk plus probably another mile or two walking around the ruins really took it out of me. Nonetheless, it was so so worth it! The walk was pretty too, which helped, and it gave us more time to talk with our guide.

Even better, after touring we stumbled upon a monkey! It was the first monkey I’ve ever seen in the wild, and it was really cute!

We stopped in the visitor’s center but didn’t stay long, which I was kind of bummed about – normally I probably could have spent a good hour there! I think the group was pretty tired though, and honestly I was too. We did get to see some cool artifacts that they had on display.

After the walk back, we stopped at a little shop for some Cokes and some homemade Ideals that were so good before heading back home.

It definitely feels a little strange doing more touristy activities – we know we definitely look like tourists, but after 8 weeks here we don’t feel like one! It is really interesting to talk with true tourists and see where they’re from, but it’s funny how even the Americans feel so “other”.

The rest of the group went to a youth night at our church that night, but I was pretty worn out still, so I had an early night in. Sunday morning we had church, and then we went to sell tamales that night with Mama. We were pretty pooped after a busy weekend!

Here’s some other fun moments from the week that I didn’t already mention:

The kittens are getting so big and so fluffy!! We can cuddle them now, and it’s so good.

Mama made a pineapple upside down cake with a lemon base, and it tasted so good.

Here’s H sipping some coffee by our window…

…and J going a little nuts out of same said window!

And finally J with her adorable stingray sunburn.

Well, that makes another week! I know I sound like a broken record, but if you all could continue praying for health for the team through November 9, we would so appreciate it. We had someone else sick again this week, and honestly I’m pretty worried about traveling back home through several airports (read: germ hubs) and convening with the two other teams who have also been traveling through numerous airports for debrief, what with the blow my immune system has taken so far. I’ll be drinking my orange juice and praying!

If you could also be praying for a good last week here in Belize, we would really appreciate it. As much as I’m excited to get home and see friends and family, I’m trying hard to stay in the moment because I know I’ll really miss it here. And in case I don’t get another post done next week, prayers for safe travels on the 6th and 7th and prayers for adjusting to life back in the States would be much appreciated too!

Much love to you all – until next time!

A Much Needed Break

Welcome back for Week 7! This was actually a really restful week for us, as a lot of our plans were cancelled. It was really nice to take it a bit easier after a busy first week in our new home!

Early Monday morning we had quite a bit of excitement, though I didn’t really realize what had happened until I woke up several hours later: one of our cats who had been pregnant had her kittens! J definitely came to her rescue and whipped up a much more suitable birthing box than the box full of wires she had chosen! We now have three little kittens; it’s crazy how much bigger they’ve gotten already, and I’m hoping they’ll be old enough to play with a little by the time we go!

Thankfully Monday was a holiday, so we didn’t have to go to school. We took the time to sleep in after a late night of selling tamales (and for J midwifing kittens!), then we got up and helped make the next batch of tamales!

I think it was Wednesday I graduated from banana leaf cleaning/wrapping to assembling some 92 tamales! I definitely don’t have it down yet, but it was neat to be involved in a different part of the process.

Monday we also went back to the boba tea spot to do a little processing of our church experiences over the weekend, which was good. It’s so wild how we all had such different experiences and perspectives, and it was really amazing hearing some of the stories of how God worked. I’m definitely not quite comfortable with this new, very charismatic style of church, and I’m still praying for discernment, but I do think some of my initial hesitation is decreasing some.

Tuesday we were back in the primary school again. Unlike the school in the village, we’re not really assigned to a classroom; we just kind of float around to wherever we’re needed. This day I was in a Standard 1 class, which was fun! I mostly graded papers and helped cut out some decorations for a bulletin board. (I was pretty amused at the irony of decorating with pictures of colorful maple leaves in a place that doesn’t really have fall, neither maple trees, and was experiencing record-high temps of over 100 degrees that week.)

After school, we walked towards town some and browsed a little; I found a cute linen dress that I’m hoping might work for when I go to South Africa next year!

J and H and I got home and decided to spend time on the roof together, which was so good! We spent hours up there, just talking and eating tamales and enjoying the sunset and stars.

Wednesday we were supposed to go to the preschool, but school was cancelled last-minute as the power was out. We took the time to rest and help make tamales, and then it was time for our big adventure of the day – finding a way back to our village! Normally we would just rely on Pastor N for a ride, since he lives in the city but preaches in the village; however, we were trying to surprise him for his birthday! After much planning and scheming (and thanks to the generosity of an extremely kind bus driver), we were able to hop on a bus taking kids from the city to the town.

And man, did it feel good to be back. None of us could believe it had only been ten days since we left – it felt so much longer! MK and I were so thrilled to get to see our family again and spend time with them before going to church. I spent most of the time playing with the boys and helping Mama pick some veggies. We got up to some good shenanigans and had some good laughs!

The congregation had decorated the altar for Pastor’s birthday and prepared a whole big meal of what else but tamales, along with rice and beans, salad, and cake! With all the festivities, it was about 10 pm before we got to enjoy the food, but I did a really good job of cleaning my plate that way!

We hung out at the church for quite a while after, just talking with our friends and catching up. Before long, it was time to get going, so we said a much less tearful goodbye and squeezed into the back of Pastor’s truck to ride back to town. The stars were beautiful that night, so I watched for constellations on the way back and praised God for the opportunity to see our families again and for such a good night. It felt especially redemptive since I had been sick that last week in the village and leaving on that note was so hard.

Thursday our plans were cancelled yet again, which meant we were able to sleep in after a late night out. J and H and I accompanied Mama to the store, where she spoiled us and bought a box of Cinnamon Toast Crunch!! We were so excited.

That night we went to a prayer night at Mama E’s church, then Friday morning we were up early to head to Pastor N’s house, where we worked to fill some more holes in his yard.

We spotted the tiniest little toads I’ve ever seen there, which is wild because the biggest toads I’ve ever seen in my life have also been from Belize. They really range the whole gambit here. (Hard to tell, but the one below is easily 7-8 inches long and a pound and a half or more!)

After getting back from Pastor’s house, we went over to the other host family for a while to eat lunch and hang out. Probably the biggest entertainment was watching one of the boys suddenly cut down a big tree with just a machete, though cuddling the sweet little neighbor baby was pretty up there too.

That night, Mama’s niece’s husband Ed came to stay with us! He is extremely outgoing and quickly rounded up a group of people to play Uno. Unfortunately, I was pretty pooped from the digging, so I didn’t stay up for it, but we got plenty of time with him the next day.

Saturday we went into town with Mama to pick up some groceries at the market. We were there earlier than the week before, so there was a good bit more of a selection, such as this big pile of dragonfruit! (Yes, we did get some.)

After groceries were acquired, we went to the pupuseria at the market, where Ed joined us for some fresh hot pupusas. Afterwards we walked over to a local ice cream shop, where Ed treated us!

Saturday also happened to be the day of the solar eclipse, so once we got home, we headed up to the roof and took a look. Even though our coordinates weren’t the best place in the world to view it, we lucked out with a pretty sunny day, so we could still see it! It got noticeably cooler and darker – I think I cracked a joke about how it would be nice to have a solar eclipse every day! (Did I mention it had cracked 100 degrees multiple days that week? Thankfully it’s gotten cooler since then, but we could still really use prayers for rain!)

A couple hours later, Ed and a friend moto-ed us over to the river for a little escape from the returned heat. We had a good time just hanging out and even jumping off the bridge a time or two!

We came back home and hung out for a while before getting ready for church. Did I mention we have horses around us that randomly walk by and sometimes grab a snack from our front yard?

That night at Mama E’s church we had a vigil! It basically was like a very long church service. Some of the team stayed for the whole thing, while the rest of us left at the break at 11:45, since we had church early in the morning.

Sunday morning we walked to church – I caught some pictures of this beauty with some gorgeous flowers along the way!

We rested for a good while after getting back…

…then headed to a coffee shop we hadn’t tried yet to hang out as a team for a while. H found some of E’s favorite chips in the store and bought a bag for her – it was pretty funny to see E’s reaction!

I have been pretty surprised at the number of familiar snacks here, especially now that we’ve moved to the city and have access to bigger stores. We even found some Cheez-Its in the store the other day, so we might be splurging on a box of those before the trip is up! There’s also a really nice selection of snacks that I haven’t seen back in the States, so it’s been really fun trying those. The favorite right now among our house is Chocolate Ideals, which is basically frozen chocolate milk in a bag. We usually tear off a corner and sip it as it melts. They’re super cheap, and very nice for a hot day!

We hustled home afterwards so we could help Mama pack up tamales and go with her downtown to sell. It was definitely a quieter night, and a shorter night for us three since we took a taxi back early, but it was still a good time!

Well friends, that makes another week! If you would be praying for health for our team here, we would really appreciate it! Unfortunately I am under the weather again, though thankfully not as badly as last time. It’s kind of hard to get enough vitamins here, so I think that between that and me having the flu a couple of weeks ago, my immune system has really taken a hit. I’m praying for a speedy recovery so that I can get back on the ground! Much love!

Goodbyes and Hellos

Hola! Thanks for being here, and thanks for your prayers for our time here in Belize!

This post will cover Weeks 5 and 6 in Belize, as I got sick Week 5 and don’t have much to cover. I mentioned in the last post that I started feeling under the weather on Saturday into Sunday, but I was still really hoping that it would be just a little bug that would pass quickly. Unfortunately, that was just not the case.

On Monday, we went to Belmopan to renew our visa, and I was still feeling pretty crummy. Thankfully we didn’t have to wait terribly long and we got everyone squeezed in before they closed for lunch! We also got to grab some classic Belizean fast food for lunch afterwards, which was good.

I had been taking my temperature over the last few days, since my host brother E had had a fever when he was sick, but everything was showing normal – until I got home from Belmopan and clocked 101 degrees. Thus kicked off five more days of flu.

Reader, it was not fun. I had every symptom in the book – fever, cough, runny nose, chills, aches. I spent 95% of my time in the hammock or the bed. I struggled to sleep at night, whether due to temperature swings or feverish dreams. But by the grace of God, things finally started to turn around on Friday, and by Sunday I was starting to feel close to normal again – just in time to leave our town on Monday. I’m honestly still kind of grieving the loss of that week – there were so many things I wanted to do with my family and so many things I missed out on: the last week of helping at the school, getting to read to J, going to Rio on Pools with the team, going to Spanish Lookout with our family, and so on. But I know God can bring good things out of hard experiences, and I’m counting on him to redeem that week. It was definitely a good reminder not to save things for the last minute, and it truly could have been so much worse. I’m grateful I don’t really have any lasting side effects save for a cough.

I did catch a few fun moments, like the horn on this guy’s bike:

Sunday night was the first night I finally felt well enough to go to church; it also happened to be our last night of church. Mama, Papa, and J all sang, which was a real treat! Papa especially is such a good singer.

It was a night of goodbyes – hard to believe it was almost time to leave this place we had come to love!

I had decided last minute before church to mix up some cake batter, which we baked after church. I had told our family friends about it, and so even though it was late, they came over to help us eat it. Unfortunately, I got the oven too hot, so it stuck to the pan, and I don’t have any pretty pictures to show. But everyone still said they enjoyed it – Papa enough that he was eating the scraps out of the pan!

It was so nice to have everyone over again – one last hurrah.

The next morning, I woke up earlier than normal and helped Mama with the entire process of making tortillas one last time.

Mama left for work, then MK and I said our goodbyes to the boys before they went to school. We did end up walking over to the school so I could say a quick goodbye to my class, since I was sick the whole week before. We stopped at Mama’s work on the way back to say goodbye, then headed back home to pack the very last of our things. Pastor N soon arrived to pick us up, and we said goodbye to Papa and drove to the other house to get the rest of the girls. Before long, we were on the road to our next home.

It was definitely a tear-filled morning. We had fallen in love with our little town and our families over the past five weeks, and goodbyes were really hard.

The drive to our next home really wasn’t that long and didn’t provide a lot of time to process and transition, so we dropped our bags off at new places, said a quick hello to our new families, then went to a local coffee shop to debrief a little. Honestly even that experience was a little overwhelming for me personally – the shop was so modern and different from what we had experienced the past five weeks that I felt a bit of reverse culture shock. But I got to try boba tea for the first time, which was a cool experience! I think I’m a new fan.

When we returned to our house, we got a tour of the place! Definitely a lot bigger than my previous house, but to be fair nobody is living in the second story because it’s still being worked on.

We did get a tour of the upper story, which has some really pretty views!

My housemates this time around are J and H. They are so sweet, and I’ve really enjoyed getting to know them more! We live with our host mom, Mama E, and her adult son, though he’s not home very often because he works. Mama E at times runs a vegetable stand out of her house, but right now she primarily sells tamales downtown. That first night we ended up going with her to help, which was a fun experience!

While we were there we heard worship music and realized it was live! Lauren had told us earlier that day that a local church she was really interested in was having a worship night on the town that evening, but she couldn’t figure out where it was. And lo and behold, it ended up being just up the street from us! We walked over and worshipped with them for a couple songs, then walked back. I think the Lord knew I needed that experience after a hard day.

We had finished selling tamales by ten, so we caught a taxi and headed back home and crashed for the night. Tuesday we got up at a decent time to head to a local private school, where we’ll be helping out on Mondays and Tuesdays the rest of our time here. Some of the group was assigned to different classrooms, and the rest of us helped the principal with some organization and creating behavior tracking devices.

We walked back with the rest of the group to their house and hung out for a while. Their house is definitely quite a bit busier! But it was a lot of fun getting to hang out and get to know the other family a little more.

We walked home, and since Mama E had already left to make tamales, we got to stay back for the night and enjoy the sunset from the roof, along with some time to ourselves! Sunsets here are just gorgeous – definitely something I will miss when we leave.

Wednesday morning we headed to a local private preschool to help for the day. It was quite a bit different from the primary school the day before, as the preschool was much smaller. Half the group was in one class and the other half in the second, so there was a lot of time with individual kids.

School in general is a bit different from our experience with school in the village. There’s definitely a lot more access to resources here – the primary school has a printer, a laminator, laptops for the teachers, and projectors for nearly all the classrooms. Most classroom decorations are purchased or printed rather than handmade. There’s also a lot more diversity in students here – almost everyone in the village was mestizo (Latino), but here there’s a good mix of mestizos, garifunas (black people), and even a handful of white people and the occasional Chinese person. Spanish also isn’t as widespread here, though it’s still pretty commonly spoken! Our host mom speaks almost exclusively Spanish, so we’re still getting lots of practice in!

Wednesday we were also introduced to the process of making tamales – we cleaned banana leaves over lunch for Mama E and her helpers.

After school, we went with her into town and sold again! This time we tried tostadas from our friend M – que rico!

Thursday we got up bright and early and went to Pastor N’s new house to help him with some work there. We were tasked with spreading some dirt (read: clay) to help even out the yard, which was some trying work. We did as best as we could and called it quits around lunchtime. Before we left we did get to try some coconut water and starfruit! There might have also been just a little bit of horsing (or shall I say “turkeying”) around with the farm animals!

That evening was a birthday party for one of the guys in the other host home, and our house was invited too, so the three of us went. There was a lot of really good food – barbecued chicken, fresh tortillas, chips with queso, and even ice cream cake!

Friday was a long, hard, but satisfying day of work! We went with Pastor N to the other church he preaches at, where they’re building a new church building around the old one, and mixed up concrete all morning into the afternoon. It was a really hot day too, into the 90s, but Pastor graciously supplied us with breaks and treats throughout the day, such as chocobananas, Cokes, apples, and cold waters. I was pretty proud of our group and the progress we were able to make – praise God for healthy, strong bodies!

We took a good solid nap afterwards, then went to church with Mama E that night. This church is the same denomination as the one we went to in the village, but definitely a bit more charismatic. It’s not uncommon for some of the women to start jumping up and down, shaking their arms, moaning or yelling, and sometimes talking in words we don’t understand. When asked afterwards, these women would tell you that they were experiencing the Holy Spirit, which is amazing! I guess I’m still struggling to process it because it’s so different from anything I’ve seen and also very different from what I expected a Holy Spirit encounter to look like. It was really kind of the pastor to have someone translate the service for us, and it seems like it will be a regular thing whenever we’re there!

Saturday we slept in a good bit – we were still recovering from all that concrete mixing – but eventually got up and headed to the downtown market with Mama E. We walked around and got some groceries, then she took us to go get pupusas since we’d never had them! They were really good – almost like a corn tortilla quesadilla/pancake with cheese, beans, and meat. It sounds like it might become a tradition for us!

Afterwards, we had our Ephesians bible study at a local ice cream spot. I got rum and raisin – so good!!

Saturday evening the team went to a more contemporary church that had a service in English. They had a prophecy team from New York visiting that weekend, so things probably looked a little different than normal – I’m looking forward to experiencing a typical service. I honestly struggled with many of the same things that I had struggled with the night before – several people fell to the ground and were moaning and shaking. A lot of the team had some really amazing encounters during that service and Sunday morning – praise God! I just have the feeling that it might take me a while to open myself up and trust that the Lord is in what I’m seeing.

Sunday morning we returned for service, then returned home and helped Mama make tamales. I’m pretty sure this was the first day I started helping with wrapping the tamales in banana leaves! It’s just one small part of the process, but it was nice to be able to contribute. We made 100 that day since it was a holiday on Monday, and we took them into town to sell. It was a long night – I think we finally returned home around 11:30 – but it went quicker than I expected! One of the best parts of selling tamales with Mama is the conversations we get to have with people and the outreach opportunities it provides. We definitely got to have a lot of convos that night! I’m praying that God works through us in these interactions and that people would see Him in us, whether or not they want to or are looking for Him. We did get to have a lot of laughs, and I particularly enjoyed jamming with one of our friends to 80s romantic classics for a good solid hour!

Well friends, that covers two full weeks – as always, thanks for the prayers, and I’ll try to have the next post up soon! Much love!

A Week of Adventures

Welcome back! Thanks for reading, and thanks even more for keeping our team and families in your prayers!

Monday morning got off to a bit of a rough start. Our youngest brother E, who had been sick the few previous days, reached a 105 degree fever that would just not respond to medication, so our parents took him into town to go to the doctor. He’s doing a lot better now, praise God! Unfortunately the bug (I’m convinced it’s a strain of the flu) has made its way around the family, and I’m currently fighting it – this past week was my turn to have a 105 degree fever! Feeling better now, but we would really appreciate continued prayers for health for our team.

It was a welcome distraction, then, to get to go to Big Rock Falls in the afternoon with the team. It’s a beautiful spot, located in the Mountain Pine Ridge Forest Reserve. The pools that the water flows into are deep enough that you can do a little cliff-jumping if you so choose, which I did! Honestly, I’m glad I tried it, but I don’t think I’d do it again – the stress of trying to hit a good place to enter the water and the pain from entering the water pretty spectacularly (read: flop) detracted from the experience for me. I got by far the biggest bruises I’ve ever had! Nonetheless, it was still a great afternoon with a lot of bonding time with the team.

I think my favorite picture of the day, though, was this one!

We came home to company over, which was fun! We had a good time talking and joking before we excused ourselves for some much needed catch up time with family back home.

Tuesday was a pretty quiet day – normally we would be working in the school, but MK and I decided to stay home and watch E so that Mama L could go to work. He was feeling considerably better already, which was great! We had missed that mischievous smile – if not all the shenanigans usually preceded by that smile…

Wednesday was a fun day because we got to experience a parade for Independence Day! The holiday itself wasn’t until Thursday, but it was organized largely by the school I think, so the kids all marched in it and then got the rest of the day off. It was lots of fun!

The rest of the team had followed the parade over to our house, where they stopped and hung out for a while, so we got some team time in – plus Mr. E, of course!

One of my favorite moments of the week was that night when Mama mixed up a concoction of instant coffee, egg, and cornstarch for some DYI skincare! Us girls had such fun with it, giggling the whole time about how ridiculous we looked and joking about how Papa would respond when he came home and saw us. I have no idea if it did anything for our skin, but we at least got a great memory out of it!

Since there was no school on Thursday, MK and I decided to pay Miss S a visit and see how she and the puppies were doing. (They’re all doing great!) We happened to be there just in time to see her newest member of the family, Miss Sophia the kitten! Absolutely precious. One of Miss S’s friends had rescued her but couldn’t keep her, so Miss S volunteered to take her in. She’s definitely got her hands pretty full – at least the puppies are pretty low maintenance right now!–

I also taught J how to make a friendship bracelet using one I had started on Sunday, and he picked it up so quickly! You can hardly tell where I stopped and he started. Talented guy, especially in the creative arts!

Friday was a great day. We helped our family with clearing out the old tomato field in the morning, then after lunch we piled in a truck to go to Barton Creek. There we put on life jackets and piled into canoes. Our destination? A cave!

C, who’s related to the other host family, acted as our tour guide and expertly guided us through. It was so interesting – he told us all about how the Mayans thought that the rain gods could be accessed through the cave and how they would offer sacrifices in the cave. There was even a skull left behind from a human sacrifice, propped up where we could see it! There were also tons of really interesting formations in the cave, some that we really had to duck around to pass by. We paddled about a kilometer in, then got out and swam a little, then paddled out.

After we exited the cave, we spent several hours playing in the water! I enjoyed taking my canoe up the river a little ways, and there was a little more cliff jumping for those strong enough to straddle some vines. And of course there was chicken fighting! We had a lot of fun.

Afterwards we rushed back, grabbed church clothes and ate dinner quickly so that we could go to the church for the worship night we were putting on! As it turned out, nobody really showed up, but we were okay with that because it meant we got time to worship as a group!

Saturday morning I got up early to help Mama make tortillas, then we went over to the church to help prep for some food sales they were doing that night as a fundraiser. Afterwards, though, I had a pretty bad headache and wasn’t feeling great, so I went back to bed for most of the morning. I did get up and about that afternoon and caught this picture of Papa shaving, which I thought was really fun!

That night we had a nearby church come and visit our church, which was pretty cool! The other pastor preached, and while I was kind of in agony due to my headache, it was really amazing to see two people give their lives to the Lord that night, including our pastor’s son!

Sunday morning MK and I stayed home from church and listened to her service back home, which was a nice change of pace! I tried to take it easy most of the day, as I still wasn’t feeling great. We did walk over to the other girls’ house around dinner to get some pizza – my first pizza in Belize!! It definitely had some strange toppings – pineapple, carrots, peppers, and broccoli – but it still tasted pretty good!

Well friends, that makes another week – thanks for tuning in! I’m sorry this last post was pretty late – I’ll try to have the next one up soon! Much love!!

New Friends, New Life, and New Lessons

¡Bienvenidos! This is the fourth installment of Belize posts and covers our third full week here.

Monday was such a good day! Sunday was a holiday, so the kids got off school on Monday, and Mama L didn’t have to work. Because of this, Mama L ended up taking MK and me to visit her Mennonite friend a little ways outside of town. The drive there was just beautiful!

When we first arrived in Belize, I was pretty surprised to hear that there was a rather large population of Mennonites. Since I’ve been here, I’ve learned that there’s several more religious groups here, including Seventh Day Adventists and Jehovah’s Witnesses. It seems several of them have migrated from the United States or Canada, perhaps because of the higher percentage of English speakers here than other Central American countries. A lot of these groups do tend to keep to themselves; we’ll occasionally run across a Mennonite coming into town, but it’s not an everyday occurrence for us.

It was a pleasure to meet and talk with D, Mama L’s friend, and hear a bit of her testimony. Unfortunately it was a pretty quick visit, but I did get to see her dragonfruit patch, which was really cool!

I’m really hoping we get the opportunity to go back and spend a little more time getting to know D – I’ve also been told she makes a really great pizza, and I can’t tell you how good that sounds!!

Afterwards, we returned home and started making food. My birthday had been the day before, but with the wedding we hadn’t had any time to celebrate. After a while, I got kind of tired and decided to go lay down for a couple minutes. Mama L told me that she would come and wake me some three hours later! I think I only slept about twenty minutes, but it was nice to have more time to rest, and I put some headphones in so I wouldn’t spoil any of the preparations going on outside my room.

I was “awakened” a few hours later to a firecracker going off and my team singing Happy Birthday! We had not one, not two, but three cakes, and a delicious dinner afterwards. They had also decorated the dining room with so many balloons!

The team even brought presents! First was a travel Chutes and Ladders game for A, since his birthday was on Friday. He absolutely loved it, and several days later we are still playing it regularly! As for me, I got a bag of goodies, because I love trying sweets from other countries, and a cover for my Bible! MK had noticed I was carrying around my Bible in a Ziploc to help protect it from the elements, so the team decided to get me a more aesthetic protector. It was so thoughtful!!

Tuesday was back to normal. I started off the day bright and early helping Mama L make flour tortillas, which are sold at the local shop as an extra source of income. They are so good!! Definitely one of the small things I’ll miss most about living here. We made a HUGE stack this morning – right about 90!

We make tortillas most mornings, depending on demand, though sometimes we make them in the evenings instead. It’s usually about 7:30 by the time we’ve finished, at which point the boys are usually up and getting ready for school. I usually help get them out the door, then we finish getting ready ourselves. This was our first normal week of helping in the school, so we volunteered on Tuesday and Thursday.

Wednesday MK and I were able to take a bit of a slower day, as we weren’t helping at school and Mama and Papa were out running errands. We helped fix lunch for the boys and did some chores around the house, but otherwise enjoyed the day to ourselves.

Thursday I finally finished my number chart at school! After cutting out 100 circles, gluing them down, cutting out borders, and covering the whole thing in plastic – all the while fighting the wind that kept trying to blow everything away – I was pretty thrilled to be done!

Friday MK and I started the day by helping Mama L “clean” chocho plants. Chocho is a type of squash commonly used in soups here. Our farm has a couple of fields full of them, and they’re just about ready to be harvested! Mama L says that they typically clean, or remove the old dead growth, three times a year! It’s a very impressive setup.

Afterwards, we got the opportunity to meet Miss S, an American ex-pat living in Belize for the last couple of decades. She graciously invited the team over for lunch and prepared a pretty big spread: vegan lasagna, walnut rice balls, and fresh salad. I think my favorite, though, was the dessert – chocolate pudding made from avocadoes!

We also got to meet her many dogs, and we even took them on a walk with us as we explored her property.

Friday night I had a pretty humbling learning moment. Because we don’t have church on Friday nights, we’ve been having worship nights with more contemporary music at the church. This was the first Friday we decided to open it up to youth in the community as an outreach event I was pretty excited to share a different way of worship: more contemporary music, dimmed lights, and I had even had the idea of lighting candles! I got the candles all prepped and ready, but I forgot the most important part – permission. We ultimately decided not to use them since the church hadn’t approved them, but we still turned off the lights during worship and just turned on our phone flashlights. Near the end of the night, the lights suddenly came back on. A church member we are close to had informed us that it’s not looked upon very favorably to worship in the dark here. The kicker for me, though, was what he added: “At least you didn’t light candles!” Ouch. I was pretty frustrated walking home; it honestly felt like a bit of a slap in the face to have our culture of worship rejected like that. But the more I’ve thought about it, the more I’ve realized that I was focusing a little too much on sharing culture rather than sharing Jesus. And yes, our goal was to present a slightly different culture of worship to help attract a different group of people than those that usually attend. But as team leader L reminded me, like Paul says in 1 Corinthians, we shouldn’t do anything that will cause another Christian to stumble – even if it’s with the best of intentions!

Saturday was an unexpectedly eventful day. At lunch the day before, MK and I had volunteered to stay and sit Miss S’s very pregnant dog while Miss S was out of town. We arrived early that morning to find Miss S still at home and one puppy already delivered! Over the next several hours, we got to act as puppy “midwives” four more times, and thankfully, they were all healthy! It was a pretty awesome experience getting to see new life being brought into the world, and I’m really glad we got to be there for Miss S, who was pretty nervous about the whole ordeal.

We went home a little after the last puppy was born at 4:00 and found Mama L doing some landscaping projects! We helped a little bit with transplanting some bushes to the backyard so the boys would have more space to run around.

I had been itching to do some baking and finally got some time on Saturday to make it happen. Tasting the plantains we cut down the week before made me miss banana cake, so I found a recipe that didn’t use butter and took a stab. It tasted good but was really, really sweet, especially with the icing. Definitely fun to get to bake though – my first time in several months! We had some company over too to help us eat it.

Mama and I talked for a bit after our company left, and somehow we got on the topic of body weight. Before I knew it, she had whipped out a scale, and we were weighing ourselves by hanging from the ceiling! I love her so much – never know what might happen when I’m spending time with her!

Sunday we didn’t go to church because all the leaders were out of town at a conference. We helped out around the house some, then walked over to the community center for a girl’s group with Miss S. Our main goal was to just support Miss S and try to make some connections with the girls, and it was a good time! We did a speed dating style icebreaker, then E from our team led a tutorial on how to make friendship bracelets.

That wraps up another week in Belize! It’s crazy to think we only have one more week left in this town before we move to our next spot. We would really appreciate your prayers for a smooth transition – we love it here, and it will be hard to leave, but we’re also excited for the next chapter. God bless – I’ll leave you with a sunset photo from the top of our hill!

New Beginnings and Celebrations

¡Hola! This post covers our mission team’s second full week in Belize. Thanks for reading!

Monday was the boys’ first day of school! Public school looks a little different here; all students wear uniforms, and at least here in our town, school is only offered through about the equivalent of seventh or eighth grade. (I say the equivalent because they use “standard” instead of “grade”.) They start younger though, as young as four! Here’s some pictures from their first day!

After seeing the boys off, MK and I had a nice slow morning before walking over to the farm store where Mama L works. For the rest of the morning, we split bulk purchases into smaller quantities – mostly nails and screws, though we also counted and parceled 5000 zucchini seeds! In the afternoon, we helped price a truckload of new product. It was really nice to do some work that wasn’t physically or mentally draining, and I really enjoyed having some time to talk more with my host mom!

That evening we didn’t have church, so we got to hang out with the fam, and J and A took us up the hill for sunset! It was absolutely lovely, and it was a good reminder of how beautiful Belize is. I need to go up there more often, just to take a break from the chaos and recenter myself in God’s creation.

Tuesday we walked back to the store to help Mama L, only to find the rest of the group there too! With everyone working, we knocked out a ton of work, so much that Mama L didn’t need any more help in the afternoon, so we stayed home and worked on laundry and dishes.

Wednesday was our first day volunteering in the local school! It was a lot of fun, just pretty hectic. So far we’ve helped a lot with creating learning tools, grading, reading to kids, and playing with them during recess. It’s been a real blessing getting to build relationships with the kids and the teachers too.

A typical school day starts at 8:30; we usually get there around 9:00, at which point the kids are a little more settled. There’s a snack break in the morning, then we break for lunch at noon for an hour. Students have the choice of purchasing lunch from school/a restaurant nearby or returning home for lunch, the latter of which our family does. An hour may sound like a lot of time to those of us who only had 30 minutes in school, but by the time you factor in a 20 minute roundtrip walk, it’s always one of the quickest hours of the day! We return at one, then the younger standards are released at 2:30, and the older standards at 3:30.

Thursday was much the same as Wednesday – helping out at the school. We did get to have our first round of “frates” – short for “friend date” – after school. Each week we’re paired up with another member of the team and we decide on something to do together for 1-2 hours, just to get to know each other a little deeper. All three pairs ended up at a little restaurant across from the school this week. I was paired with E and got to bond with her over a love of creation, going on walks, and photography! I also got to try an Oreo Frappe, and man did it hit the spot.

One of my favorite moments of the week happened that night after going back home; Mama L asked me for help chopping down some plantains in the yard, so I followed her there. She tried tugging on a big bunch to pull them down, but no luck. She says to me, “¿Listo?” (“Ready?” in Spanish), then before waiting for an answer gives the plantain trunk a good thwack with the machete. I had just enough time to jump out of the way before the whole plant came crashing down! I don’t think either of us expected it to come down so easily. We got a really good laugh out of it, as well as a huge bunch of plantains!

Friday MK and I took the morning to rest because we were pooped, and then we joined the rest of the group at school again for a reading day. By the afternoon, though, the reading was done, so we just continued working on our projects from the previous day.

After school, we headed to Mami and Papi’s house for dinner, then hopped next door to the church for some worship time. MK and I walked back afterwards, expecting to help our host family plant tomatoes. Instead, we were roped into a plan to help celebrate our middle host brother’s birthday! We distracted the boys with their tablet, and all four of us adults took off on the motorcycles. We ended up at the house of some fellow church members, who had made an amazing cake for A! MK got the honor of carrying it on the back of the moto – I was glad because I had carried a huge pot of beans home on the back of the moto the week before, and while I didn’t drop it, I was still a little scarred!

A was so excited when he saw the cake – lots of jumping up and down, and I think every one present got a hug! Probably one of my favorite moments of the trip.

We had company over too, and before long the kids had migrated back to the bedroom while the adults hung out and chatted. It was kind of fun to try to follow along with the conversation, since it was all in Spanish. I found that as long as I paid close attention, I could usually figure out what the conversation topic was about, and I was even able to crack a joke or two! I’m praising God for being able to learn and understand more Spanish and praying for continued growth!

Saturday morning came bright and early, as MK and I hopped on the bus into town at 6:30, along with L and H. MK and I stayed at a coffee shop for nearly the whole time we were in town, just taking some time to rest and catch up on things we had neglected throughout the week. It was a much needed respite, and the coffee and air conditioning were wonderful!!

We picked up a couple groceries for our family, then headed back on the bus. We had a couple of hours before heading to a birthday party for some of the girls at our church. The food was delicious, and it was good to have some time with the team too!

Afterwards, MK and I headed back home and helped the family plant tomatoes once it got dark! We had a pretty good time, and all the rows were planted in around two hours – it went by quickly!

Sunday I woke up to birthday hugs from Mama L and the boys, which was so sweet! From there it was pretty go-go-go, because there was a wedding at our church! I helped Mama L with making food for the reception most of the morning, then MK and I attempted making some Southern fried chicken for lunch. It probably would have turned out disastrous had Mama L not stepped in to help a little, but as it was, we thought it was rather tasty!

After lunch we got cleaned up and raced off to the wedding!

The wedding was very similar to weddings I’ve experienced in the States. Probably the biggest difference was the size and roles of the bridal party – there were several young people who seemed to be like bridesmaids and groomsmen; two flower girls, two ring bearers, another young woman dressed in a beautiful green gown, two older people I assume were the maid of honor and best man, and – the most interesting to me – a mini me of the bride and groom!

The bridesmaids and groomsmen had a beautiful entrance, slowly stepping and twirling until they lined the archway. They each carried a stick covered in flowers, which they raised over the bride and groom to form a tunnel when they entered. They also held two ribbons across the aisle, which the girl in green cut when she walked through. The only other main difference was that the bride and groom wore two necklaces that were attached together towards the end of the ceremony. The reception was relatively standard, except for the lack of dancing – dancing isn’t really common in religious communities here. The food was delicious – worth getting rained on! I am somewhat sad that we didn’t stay for cake, but I ended up getting my fill the following day (spoiler alert!).

I’m so glad we got to experience it – it was a real treat, both from a cultural perspective and a holy perspective. Seeing two people who love Jesus joined together in marriage is so beautiful – even if you’ve never met them before! Definitely a really neat way to spend a birthday.

Well friends, that wraps up a busy, busy week! Thanks for reading – I’m hoping to have another post up soon!

Settling In

Buenos! Welcome back to the second installment of Belize blog posts!

I’ll start off with a little bit of background about Belize, since I didn’t really cover much in the first post. It’s an itty-bitty country that shares borders with Guatemala and Mexico; roughly 400,000 people call it home. Belize is unique in that it’s the only mainland country in Central America to have once been part of the British Empire. It was known as British Honduras until the ’70s, and didn’t formally gain independence until the ’80s, though it’s still a part of the Commonwealth. For this reason, English is the official and most widely spoken language here and is taught in schools. However, there are several immigrants from surrounding countries, particularly in more rural areas, so Spanish is much more dominant there. As a small farming community, the village we’re staying at definitely falls into the rural category. One of our host families speaks only Spanish, but in our other family, the dad and the three boys can speak varying amounts of English. I’m really thankful I took three years in high school and that it came back quickly!

Some other interesting facts: currency is the Belizean dollar, which converts to about fifty cents to one US dollar (yay for easy math!). Here’s what it looks like:

One of Belize’s biggest industries is tourism; there are several resorts along the coast, and it’s well known for snorkeling along its beautiful coral reefs. Its government is a parliamentary constitutional monarchy, which is a mouthful! Basically they elect a prime minister and a Senate and House of Representatives, but King Charles III holds the title of King of Belize. Unfortunately, corruption in the government and police is pretty widespread; bribes, under-the-table dealings, and illicit favors are pretty common.

Though we’re a ways from the equator, weather is pretty toasty here; highs in the low nineties and humid, and lows in the low seventies to upper sixties. I’m praising God that I finally feel like I’m adjusting; it’s also helped that it’s been cooling down as we move into the rainy season, and we’ve had a lot of nice cool breezes too. We’re technically on Central Time, but Belize doesn’t do Daylight Savings Time, so we’re actually matching Mountain Time right now. It gets light about 5:30 and dark at 6:30.

Okay, back to our time here! Monday morning we walked around the town and invited any kids we saw to Kid’s Club – think a VBS-like program – that we would be putting on later that day. We still had a week before school started, and there’s no church on Mondays, so we took advantage of the time as an outreach opportunity. We chose a lesson and planned it after lunch, then put it on around 2. Unfortunately I didn’t get any pictures, but it was fun! We played a bunch of games, performed a skit, had some discussion questions, learned a Bible verse, and colored.

While we were prepping for Kid’s Club, we got a text saying that our second host family had returned from vacation and that they were planning on picking us up that afternoon, so MK and I rushed to pack up our stuff after church and bid goodbye to the other girls.

Upon arriving, two very excited little boys came running out of the house and gave us big hugs. We soon met the rest of the family: M, our host dad; L, our host mom; and the boys, J, A, and E. Here’s M with the boys:

And here’s L with MK and A!

This family has been so sweet to us, and we’ve had a lot of laughs with them! The boys are definitely ornery, but they can be really sweet too. We frequently affectionately refer to them as the “chicos locos”!

We were treated to a beautiful sunset, along with some banana bread and coffee.

Our house measures probably about 15 feet by 25 feet. MK and I are fortunate enough to have our own room; we share a full sized bed and have a wardrobe to keep our clothes and belongings in. There’s a kitchen, a dining room, and then one bigger bedroom that the rest of the family shares. The shower and wash area are detached from the house – you can see them in the above photo – and the toilet is a pretty standard pit toilet a significant distance from the house – good from an odor perspective, a little more challenging from a middle-of-the-night-need-to-go perspective! We have clean running water from a spigot attached to the outside of the house, and while we’re a little too far off the main road to be hooked into the main power grid, we have a couple of solar panels that generally allow us to have lights at night, charge our phones, run the washer, etc. – so long as we don’t use too much or have multiple cloudy days in a row! The feature I least expected was wifi, though it seems nearly every home here has it – it’s been such a huge blessing for communicating!

While that first evening was really nice, it unfortunately got challenging pretty quickly. I woke up around midnight to find poor MK getting sick. I spent a good chunk of the next few days helping to take care of her and trying to keep her as comfortable as possible in the unrelenting heat. It was definitely a rough start, but praise God that we’re both feeling nearly 100% again! I think one of the biggest positive outcomes of the whole situation was that we became closer very quickly and more dependent on each other and more vulnerable than we would have otherwise.

The rest of my time those first few days was spent learning how chores were done and watching the boys while M and L ran errands. Dishes are done outside at the sink, since there’s no running water inside the house, and if it’s a cloudy day or nighttime, clothes are washed at the sink too using a good old-fashioned scrub board. We do try to wait for sunny days though so we can use the washer! The machine wrings the clothes out, and then we hang them on the line to dry. Here’s what it looked like after getting back from their vacation!

M has a farm on the property – he’s kind of in between crops at the moment, but he primarily has tomatoes and zucchini. Here’s a couple pictures from around the farm:

Church is usually held five days a week here, with two different services on Sunday, but we took a couple days off as MK was recouping and the family was recovering from vacation. Some of us went Wednesday, but the boys were clearly pooped!

Thursdays church is held at a member’s house; that was the first day we were all able to go as a family, and it was really nice. They served cinnamon rolls afterwards, which me and my sweet tooth really appreciated! M frequently helps with the music, and the boys love to help too.

Friday there’s no church, so we did another Kid’s Club. We had more kids this time, which was fun, but I was pretty pooped afterwards. Thankfully we had a little time to worship as a team and just take a moment to recenter. After returning home, we walked to the store with L and the boys and just enjoyed hanging out.

Saturday morning we were supposed to take a bus into town as a team, but I woke up not feeling great, so I decided to take some much needed rest at home instead. Thankfully I got better pretty quickly thanks to some medication, enough that I was able to go to church that night.

Sunday we had church in the morning, then I helped L with making lunch. The team came over for a bit and we got to have Bible study, then we all walked over to the church and helped the women prepare a bunch of food that was then sold to church and community members. It doesn’t sound like that happens every week, but we’re not really sure what the occasion was! We had a lot of fun helping with empanadas and salbutes though.

Well friends, that makes a full week! I’m feeling a little more caught up now – I’ll be in touch soon! Much love!